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8 Steps for Getting Re-inspired About Your Goals

Sometimes we get so busy with life that we forget to check in on where we're going. If you feel like you're working hard but spinning your wheels it might be time for a reset. 

The good thing is that each day is an opportunity for a fresh start. It's not just about forgetting past mistakes or leaving behind our old selves. It’s about accepting the challenges ahead and finding motivation to keep moving forward. 

This effort requires more than just good intentions—it demands a mindset shift, resilience, and the courage to challenge the status quo. In this guide, we'll share insights, lessons, and personal experiences that can help you get re-inspired and re-focused.

1. Embrace Discomfort

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Is it possible life is feeling stagnant because you're staying a bit too comfortable? Embrace discomfort as a catalyst for personal and professional growth. Challenge yourself, take on more tasks, and push your boundaries. Success often lies just outside your comfort zone.

Consider taking on projects that align with your long-term goals but might seem challenging at first. Volunteer for leadership roles, explore new skills or tackle tasks that push your current capabilities. These growth opportunities might initially feel unfamiliar, but they serve as stepping stones toward achieving your aspirations.

2. Prioritize Meaningful Pursuits

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Are you engaged in work or activities that are meaningful to you? I chose focus as my word for the year. My father-in-law engraved that word into a bracelet I wear around my wrist. It now serves as a symbolic reminder to pursue what really matters and not chase every “squirrel” that runs by. However, I still need to take stock and let go of doing activities that don't matter sometimes.

Evaluate the impact of your activities on your overall well-being and prioritize those that contribute positively to your personal growth and happiness. This intentional focus on meaningful pursuits fosters a more fulfilling and purposeful life.

3. Hold Yourself Accountable

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Is there an area of life where you need to take more responsibility for your actions? Perhaps the hardest step to take is self-reflection. It requires looking at past mistakes, owning them, and not blaming others. When we blame others or circumstances out of our control, we dismiss the lesson of failure. 

Taking full responsibility for your actions and decisions allows you to learn from mistakes and gives you the power to change your future.

4. Stop Seeking Affirmation

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What would happen if you accept yourself as you are? In today’s society efforts and actions are on full public display. People post their happenings with the expectation of a reaction…it’s literally built into the application. From likes to comments, hearts to smiley faces, society has become a self seeking addict to affirmation. 

While approval can be a good thing and provide guidance to what is acceptable, it shouldn’t be a barrier to following your dream. Break free from the chains of external validation. Success isn't determined by others' approval; it's about internal validation. Pursue your goals unapologetically, accepting yourself, flaws and all.

5. Practice Resilience

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What strengths have you used in the past to overcome obstacles and get to where you are now?

re·​sil·​ience 1. : the ability of a body to regain its original size and shape after being compressed, bent, or stretched : elasticity. 2. : the ability to recover from or adjust to misfortune or change. (Websters Dictionary)

Only a fortunate few have a robust support system to provide assistance when facing challenges. Being able to lift yourself up after failure is the application of resilience. Bounce back from setbacks, adapt to change, and persist in the face of adversity. Accept failure as part of the journey and come back stronger. Resilience cultivates strength and determination.

6. Cultivate Positive Patterns

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Is there a positive habit you'd like to begin or support? Habits are patterns we repeat because they make us happy. They instill a positive return response in our brains and keep us returning for more.

If those habits are part of what you do for a living, success could be even easier to accomplish. 

For instance, if you excel in digital marketing, stay updated on the latest trends in social media algorithms. If graphic design is your forte, consistently practice and explore new design tools to enhance your creativity. Aligning your habits with your expertise and market demands will foster a path to success.

7. Foster Meaningful Connections

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How can you increase connection in your life? The minute I found a group of writers with similar goals as mine, I had a sense of relief. I didn’t seek this for external affirmation but rather for mentorship and guidance. This was perhaps the critical step I took to finding success.

Whatever your goal this year, don't navigate it alone. Seek a community to exchange experiences, ideas, and motivations. A strong network provides invaluable support and a diversity of perspectives.

For example, attend industry events to connect with professionals in your field. Join online communities related to your interests to broaden your network globally. Participating actively in discussions and collaborations can open new opportunities and insights.

8. Educate Yourself

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What is it time to learn? It’s never a misstep to explore continuous learning opportunities. My grandmother taught me that a fulfilling life is one dedicated to constant learning. Success isn't a destination but an ongoing journey.

Every day presents an opportunity to learn something new. In today's age, formal education isn't the sole avenue. While degrees and certifications hold merit, numerous online resources facilitate continuous advancement. Dive into a subject through books, podcasts, or online courses, broadening your knowledge. Attend workshops that challenge perspectives and introduce novel ideas. This mindset not only opens doors to personal development but also presents opportunities. Liberate yourself from predefined rules, fostering curiosity with each new day.

 Cheers to Your Next Steps

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Remember that success is not merely a destination but an ongoing journey. Aim to be better than the person you were yesterday, work hard, overcome fear, and reach for your goals to make yourself proud. In the pursuit of success, let these steps guide you towards a more fulfilling and purposeful life.

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Alissa Zorn is an author, and founder of the website Overthought This. She's a coach and cartoonist passionate about helping people overcome perfectionism and shame to build authentic, joyful lives. Alissa is certified through the International Coach Federation and got her Trauma-Informed Coaching certification from Moving the Human Spirit. She wrote Bounceback Parenting: A Field Guide for Creating Connection, Not Perfection, and is always following curiosity to find her next creative endeavor.